Penthesilea wrote on Jul 26
th, 2011 at 12:07am:
The man is right, ya know. The first step towards a healthy pregnancy and a healthy baby is a healthy mother. Be prepared to fussed over, spoiled and stuffed to the gills with pre-natal vitamins!
And hopefully, you WILL get your stuff back too!
Oh, I'm already being fussed over! Last night, we were still in that "OMG, we're having a baby," glow, and he was so, so sweet. Names picked out and everything. Then today, when I started bleeding, he was again so sweet. He drove me to the hospital, where they said, basically, "Yup, the test came back that you're pregnant, and yup, it looks like you're miscarrying, so just go home and rest." And now he won't let me do anything but sit or lay around all day long. "No, baby, you need rest," he says LOL I went to get up and get something to eat, and he jumped up to get it for me.
With the blow up with my now ex-roommates today, J was right there yelling at them, while I'm sitting there hyperventilating, trying not to cry because we'd only just gotten back from the hospital when the ex-roommate started screaming at me about money. At this point, he's so, so mad at them that he never wants to speak to them again; which makes me feel bad because they're his family. My ex-roommate was his sister, and this has driven a deep wedge between them. And I feel really bad about that, but a tiny part of me is saying, "Wow... he loves me enough to tell his family to screw off..." They'll make up, they always do, but it sucks that it came to this.
But through it all, he's right here with me. Hugs, kisses, cuddles, anything I need. I've been having back pains really bad; basically contractions from the miscarriage, and whenever they hit, he's rushing over to me, rubbing my back and making sure I'm okay.