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Reply #175 - Dec 2nd, 2011 at 4:48pm
 
Sitalique wrote on Dec 2nd, 2011 at 2:53pm:
Decorating for Christmas is not supposed to be depressing, but it is.

I have so much stuff I want to put up but either don't have the space or can't because of the cat (I love them both, but Smokey has never gotten into things and destroyed stuff the way Sofie does)

Maybe I'll go to the store later and see if I can pick up something for cheap.


my mom is letting me make christmas ornaments this year when i get home, im so excited ^~^
  
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Reply #176 - Dec 2nd, 2011 at 6:46pm
 
Wonder Pets is on!!  Smiley Smiley

*puts in earbuds*

*turns on Media Player*

*cranks up WGD's new CD*

MUCH BETTER!!!!  Smiley
  


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Reply #177 - Dec 2nd, 2011 at 7:11pm
 
*smiles and sings*

Wonder Pets!
Wonder Pets!
We're on our way
To help a friend
And save the day
We're not too big
And we're not too tough
But when we work together
We've got the right stuff
Go, Wonder Pets, yay!


*quickly ducks for cover*
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Reply #178 - Dec 2nd, 2011 at 7:11pm
 
OMG Uni, GIVE ME A FREAKING BREAK ALREADY.

We fought.  Not loud, but words were definitely said.  And I gave him a choice.  Make up your mind.  You stay and work on it, or you find another place to live.  And I'm not going to wait forever for you to make up your mind.

I gave him until today.  It didn't even take that long.  I'd finished saying what I wanted to say to him, which was mostly, "I love you, and I'll put up with a whole lot of crap from you, but I'm not going to beg you to stay.  I want you here, but if you want out, get out."  And then I went upstairs for a bit.

I came back down, and he was on his computer.  I sat down to do some work, and next thing I know, he's saying, "Can we talk?"

And we did.  A LOT.  And he's staying.  He wants to work on it.  Our marriage, his attitude, all of it.

And today, he is working on it.  Total flip flop from last night.

I know it's his bipolar.  I know that.  But it still hurts like hell.  And I've made sure to remind him of that a few times.
  

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Reply #179 - Dec 2nd, 2011 at 7:17pm
 
Sitalique wrote on Dec 2nd, 2011 at 7:11pm:
*smiles and sings*

Wonder Pets!
Wonder Pets!
We're on our way
To help a friend
And save the day
We're not too big
And we're not too tough
But when we work together
We've got the right stuff
Go, Wonder Pets, yay!


*quickly ducks for cover*

*SWIPE*

Smiley Smiley Smiley Smiley Smiley Smiley Smiley Smiley Smiley Smiley Smiley Smiley
  


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Reply #180 - Dec 2nd, 2011 at 7:18pm
 
I sorta figured that his bipolar was at the bottom of it -- but that doesn't give him a free pass to hurt you and NOT work on what he can control. Smiley Keep his feet to the fire, hon. It (the whole thing: marriage, his attitude and all) is probably more and harder work than he's ever been called on to do and there WILL be a temptation to slack off. Don't let him.

We went to the bank to cash the girls' checks, then we had some lunch and did a little bit of shopping. Skywise has headed for work and I'm hobbling around trying to get something done. *sigh* I HATE having to use a cane....
  

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Reply #181 - Dec 2nd, 2011 at 7:19pm
 
aranarose wrote on Dec 2nd, 2011 at 7:11pm:
OMG Uni, GIVE ME A FREAKING BREAK ALREADY.

We fought.  Not loud, but words were definitely said.  And I gave him a choice.  Make up your mind.  You stay and work on it, or you find another place to live.  And I'm not going to wait forever for you to make up your mind.

I gave him until today.  It didn't even take that long.  I'd finished saying what I wanted to say to him, which was mostly, "I love you, and I'll put up with a whole lot of crap from you, but I'm not going to beg you to stay.  I want you here, but if you want out, get out."  And then I went upstairs for a bit.

I came back down, and he was on his computer.  I sat down to do some work, and next thing I know, he's saying, "Can we talk?"

And we did.  A LOT.  And he's staying.  He wants to work on it.  Our marriage, his attitude, all of it.

And today, he is working on it.  Total flip flop from last night.

I know it's his bipolar.  I know that.  But it still hurts like hell.  And I've made sure to remind him of that a few times.

HUGE  Smiley AR... Tons of them!!
  


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Reply #182 - Dec 2nd, 2011 at 9:23pm
 
There is a kitteh standing on my foot and thinking about climbing my pant leg....
  

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Reply #183 - Dec 2nd, 2011 at 9:42pm
 
*giggle!!*

I has one on the computer tower, she's fluffy and so purrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr-fect..... Cheesy
  


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Reply #184 - Dec 2nd, 2011 at 11:24pm
 
*runs through thread wearing a neon green tutu*

Made ya look!!!  Smiley
  


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Reply #185 - Dec 2nd, 2011 at 11:34pm
 
*Runs through the thread so fast you don't know if I'm wearing anything at all......*
  

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Reply #186 - Dec 2nd, 2011 at 11:36pm
 
Ashera wrote on Dec 2nd, 2011 at 11:34pm:
*Runs through the thread so fast you don't know if I'm wearing anything at all......*

Smiley
  


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Reply #187 - Dec 3rd, 2011 at 3:13am
 
*Laughing*
I was walking through the bookstore tonight and they were playing christmas music over the sound system. I was singing "Can't You Hear Me Knocking" by the Rolling Stones, complete with 'nana nana nana' guitar riff. (Look it up on youtube) Quite possibly the most badass song in rock-n-roll history. And Very Suggestive lyrics that I know by heart.
I got some strange looks...
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Reply #188 - Dec 3rd, 2011 at 3:38am
 
I'll just bet that you did and I'm not the least surprised!
  

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Reply #189 - Dec 3rd, 2011 at 6:35am
 
It's 1:30 in the morning.
Skywise has asked me a very "leading" question..
The answer was "you bet!"
So I'm outta here!

Everyone sleep well and be safe! Smiley Smiley
  

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Reply #190 - Dec 3rd, 2011 at 2:10pm
 
Morning everyone!

It's a sunny day here and that means I'm feeling chipper... Smiley

Of course, seeing that our Tech God was in and left some very detailed instructions in regards to tech things helped too... We have the best tech god in the world for Sanctuary, everyone! I just hope I can live up to his and Penth's hopes for me to learn how to do some of the tech work around here!!

I'll be studying his instructions over the weekend and am HOPING to have at least one banner inputted/programmed into one of our skins by the time Tuesday rolls around. I'll update as things progress out back! Cheesy

I'm around for a good part of the day (VISIBLE!) if anyone needs to talk or has any questions... As always!! Cheesy

Time to grab another coffee and check my SP Pets in another tab. Cheesy
  


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Reply #191 - Dec 3rd, 2011 at 3:24pm
 
There is a batch of blueberry muffins in the oven right now... The house smells sooooooooo good!! Cheesy
  


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Reply #192 - Dec 3rd, 2011 at 4:32pm
 
I'm awake and working... that's about all I can say for today  Cheesy
  

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Reply #193 - Dec 3rd, 2011 at 6:25pm
 
We're back from errand running. Smiley
I was bad at the grocery store. They had small cartons of deli-made fudge at the checkout. Three kinds: peanut butter, chocolate and chocolate with nuts. I got a box of the plain chocolate. Smiley It is SOOOOOOOOOOO good. And after the week I've had (Sanctuary's upgrade is the only bright spot) I NEEDZ me some comfort food and nothing is more comforting than chocolate!
  

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Reply #194 - Dec 3rd, 2011 at 6:28pm
 
Penthesilea wrote on Dec 3rd, 2011 at 6:25pm:
We're back from errand running. Smiley
I was bad at the grocery store. They had small cartons of deli-made fudge at the checkout. Three kinds: peanut butter, chocolate and chocolate with nuts. I got a box of the plain chocolate. Smiley It is SOOOOOOOOOOO good. And after the week I've had (Sanctuary's upgrade is the only bright spot) I NEEDZ me some comfort food and nothing is more comforting than chocolate!


I should make fudge.  'Cuz I REALLY need some comfort food right about now...  Angry
  

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Reply #195 - Dec 3rd, 2011 at 6:53pm
 
I think, perhaps, this is one of those short, passionate marriages that burn themselves out way too quickly.  I think.
  

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Reply #196 - Dec 3rd, 2011 at 7:03pm
 
aranarose wrote on Dec 3rd, 2011 at 6:53pm:
I think, perhaps, this is one of those short, passionate marriages that burn themselves out way too quickly.  I think.

Smiley I hope it isn't AR... If he leaves or does something stupid, he's tossing away the best thing that ever happened to him... YOU.
  


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Reply #197 - Dec 3rd, 2011 at 7:09pm
 
Veridian Etoile wrote on Dec 3rd, 2011 at 7:03pm:
aranarose wrote on Dec 3rd, 2011 at 6:53pm:
I think, perhaps, this is one of those short, passionate marriages that burn themselves out way too quickly.  I think.

Smiley I hope it isn't AR... If he leaves or does something stupid, he's tossing away the best thing that ever happened to him... YOU.


I just don't know anymore.  I keep telling myself it's just his bipolar, and that he'll snap out of it.  But suddenly, he's telling me that I'm a bitch to everyone, and snapping at me for everything.  I said something, and he says, "What, you gonna take my phone from me?"  I'm like what?  I took his phone when we were fighting the other night, because he told me he wanted out of the marriage.  Hello, I pay for the phone, and the contract is in my name.  I'm supposed to trust a jobless 20-year-old to pay the bill for me?  Yeah, no, I'm not stupid.

I told him no, I don't want the phone right now.  The only way I want the phone is if he's leaving me.  I flat out told him that if he insists on me taking the phone, he may as well pack up and get out right now.

He put the phone back in its case on his hip.

I'm just not going to deal with it anymore.  He gets help, or he gets out.  I can't do this right now.  I just can't.  Because when he comes out of this crash, suddenly it'll be all fine and great between us, but it'll be me waiting for the next crash.
  

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Reply #198 - Dec 3rd, 2011 at 7:16pm
 
Smiley AR. Yeah, he needs to get help because from the sound of it, if he doesn't his whole life will be one long cycle of "crash and recover" and he won't be able to have a stable life of any kind with anyone.
  

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Reply #199 - Dec 3rd, 2011 at 7:39pm
 
in the process of preparing a shirt to be tyedyed!!! its set in the fixing solution over night and now its hanging up to dry so i can rubber band it up and dye it ^~^ so excited >.<
  
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