Penthesilea wrote on Dec 8
th, 2011 at 4:04am:
The whole "jealousy" thing will have to be dealt with first and as thoroughly as possible "before the fact". I'd think that would be the biggest hurdle.
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Yep. He thinks he could handle it. He thinks it would be hot/fun/various other things... but... yeah... I know the reality is quite, quite different.
He freaked out today. Just a minor freak out, and we were able to clear things up. But it was definitely something that points to his jealousy issues.
He had to go to get some blood drawn. His aunt, who we live with, had to have blood drawn at the same place, so they went together. I stayed home, because we were expecting his brother to show up with money he owes us (he never did).
After they left, I took a shower, and after I got out of the shower and was enjoying some time *alone*, the phone rang. I run to the other room, with just a towel on, to answer the phone. And it was J. They were done, and heading home.
Apparently, it sounded to him like I was talking to someone else while on the phone with him, and boy oh boy did he get mad.
He got home and went off about it again. "Who was here? Who were you talking to?"
Um, hello... it was me and two cats. NO ONE else came over. No one else was in the house. When he thought I was talking to someone else, I was looking at one of the cats who was having a spazz attack.
He finally calmed down about it, when he realized that I was definitely telling the truth.
That's just one of the issues we have to work on before proceeding with such funs...