So my life just got complicated.
There's this 'girl' I've known since I was 9 years old. We dated in high school, and it ended badly. She partied way too hard, and I had to quite partying because it was killing me. We broke up, and she moved out of state.
We'd be in contact off and on throughout the years, and when things got really bad in my marriage, she was one of the only ones I could talk to.
She was supposed to come up to Michigan a few weeks ago, and we were going to meet up. She was even planning fun with J and I
but her plans fell through and she didn't make it.
Well, this week she was in Michigan, but she didn't tell me until last night. And she's leaving today. She was at a concert, and wanted to come get me and J after for that fun.
She'd never talked to J before, so I gave her his number.
They spent the whole night texting each other. I'm not even sure what all was said; he was at his cousin's house all night. But he called me and told me some of it.
Basically, she's hyper protective of me (knew that), horny as hell and wants me back in a bad way. As in she'd move back to Michigan if I gave her a second chance. She's even up for a triangle relationship; she likes J after talking with him all night long.
They've both said it's entirely up to me. They were literally a block away from each other and didn't know it until after she was already driving away, but they didn't meet because they don't want to hurt me in anyway. I wouldn't have even been bothered if they met; I want them to.
Anyway... complications... she wants me back. And she still parties too hard. She'd gone to a hotel after the concert to party, and got bored with it and decided to drive up here and get J and I. But she got pulled over by the cops for a busted tail light. She got lucky. She had a lot of not legal stuff on her, and the cop didn't even search her. She was also blazed beyond belief and he didn't even test her. Don't know how she does it, but she never gets busted.
But she was freaked out, so she went back to the hotel. All this time, she's talking to J and I. I have no idea what she's saying to J, other than telling him about me and my past, and apparently agreeing with him that my ex-husband needs to be taken care of.
I was so, so in love with her, and I do still love her a lot, but... I'm not sure me getting into a relationship with her again is such a grand idea. She's flaky. I'm not sure she'll even want to talk to us much once she wakes up sober this morning. At this point, she's probably heading back to Arizona, because her roommates were with her. She's got a boyfriend; and their relationship is complicated. And she tends to flake out. She gets these grand ideas, and then fizzles completely before really even getting started.
So here I am with J totally infatuated with her, which is easy to happen because EVERYONE gets infatuated with her. She's a whole lot of fun. But she's a whole mess of bipolar and addict, too.
Yeah... life got complicated...